Does God Hear the Prayers of a Sinner?

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Summary

Have you ever messed up so badly that when you went to kneel down to pray, you froze? When a heavy cloud of unworthiness settles over you, a whisper often creeps into your mind saying: Don't bother. God is too holy. Your mistakes are too big, and He isn't listening to you right now. If you are carrying a secret burden of shame and asking, "Does God hear the prayers of a sinner?", you are in the right place!

In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and licensed clinical social worker Wendi Christensen tackle the paralyzing trap of spiritual isolation. We break down the critical psychological and spiritual difference between guilt (which moves us forward toward God) and shame (which forces us to hide). We also explore the shocking Old Testament story of King Manasseh—the most destructive, wicked king in Judah's history—who found immediate grace and restoration when he cried out from a Babylonian dungeon. Whether you are struggling with a deep spiritual transgression or the crushing weight of perfectionism, tune in to discover why your broken heart is the exact frequency Heaven is waiting to hear. Move from hiding in fear to healing by grace today!

 

Episode Takeaways

  • Guilt vs. Shame: Guilt is the correction of the Spirit; it says, "I made a bad choice," and moves you toward repentance and change. Shame is the condemnation of the enemy; it says, "I am worthless," and forces you to hide from God.
  • The Story of Manasseh: King Manasseh was the most aggressively wicked king in Judah's history. Yet, when he hit rock bottom in a Babylonian dungeon and cried out to God, he was heard and restored. Your mistakes have not outrun God's mercy!
  • A Rescue Plan for the Fallen: If God only listened to perfect people, Heaven would be entirely silent (Romans 3:23). The Gospel is not a plan for the flawless; it is a rescue plan for the fallen.
  • Christ Makes You Enough: You do not have to present a perfect record to God; you just have to present an honest, broken heart. Christ’s grace is sufficient to fill in the void and make you enough.

 

Resources

Ready to step out of the paralyzing cloud of shame and establish a secure connection with your Heavenly Father? Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you calm your mind and prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

 

Reflection Questions

  • When you make a mistake, do you usually feel guilt (a desire to change and move toward God) or shame (a feeling of worthlessness that makes you want to hide)?
  • How does the story of King Manasseh change your perspective on how far God's mercy can reach?
  • Are you currently letting perfectionism (like a "B+" in life) mimic the darkness and shame of sin? How can you give yourself more grace today?

 

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Wendi Christensen @wendichristensencounseling

 

Transcript

 

Tamara K. Anderson

00:00:00.560 - 00:03:33.650

Have you ever messed up so badly that when you went to kneel down, you actually froze? You felt a heavy cloud of unworthiness just settle over you? A whisper crept into your mind saying, don't bother. God is too holy.

 

Your mistakes are too big and he is not listening to you right now.

 

Perhaps you are asking, does God hear the prayers of a sinner because you're carrying a secret burden of shame and you're terrified that your faults have locked the doors of heaven against you. Well, take heart, my friend. You are in the right place.

 

And by the end of today's episode, you will understand the critical difference between the divine purpose of guilt and the destructive trap of shame. You will gain an absolute certainty that your broken heart is the exact frequency heaven is waiting to hear.

 

What we're going to help you solve feeling spiritual isolation by unpacking the shocking restoration the most wicked king in Judah's history, plus exposing the tactical lies the adversary uses to make you feel worthless. We're moving from hiding in fear to healing by grace. Stay tuned. Ordinary women Extraordinary faith When God calls, we say yes.

 

Hello and welcome to another episode of the Arise Women of God podcast. I'm your host, Tamara K. Anderson.

 

And joining me today is the wonderfully talented and amazing Wendy Christensen, who happens to be my co founder of Women warriors of Light and has also been a clinical licensed social worker for over 30 years. And guys, we're going to use her expertise today as we tackle this difficult question. Does God hear the prayers of a sinner?

 

To kick it off, let's start with the foundational liberating truth found in Romans chapter 3, verse 23, which says, for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God, all have sinned. If God only listened to perfect people, heaven would be entirely silent and prayer would not exist.

 

The scriptures never present a gospel plan for the flawless. They present a rescue plan for the fallen. In Isaiah, chapter 1, verse 18, the Lord gives a direct standing invitation to every single one of us.

 

Quote, come now and let us reason together, saith the Lord. Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow. End quote. God doesn't say, come to me after you've cleaned yourself up.

 

He says, come now in the middle of your scarlet sins. But the adversary's goal is to keep you from acting on that invitation. To do that, he weaponizes our mistakes to distort our inner wiring.

 

We're going to now look at the psychological trap that locks our mouths shut when we need to pray the most. Many of us confuse the correction of the spirit with the condemnation of the enemy.

 

Wende is now going to explain the sharp difference between guilt, which moves us forward, and shame, which forces us to hide.

 

Wendi Christensen

00:03:34.370 - 00:05:16.370

And. And I want to talk for just a minute about the difference between shame and guilt, because I do think that they serve different roles when.

 

When we look at guilt and talk about guilt. Guilt has to do with, I've done something wrong, like, I made a bad choice.

 

You know, when my kids do something wrong, I'll say, it's okay, you made a wrong choice. I don't care that you made a mistake. Mistakes are part of life. What I care about is what you learn from that mistake.

 

And I feel like we have a loving heavenly Father who gave us his beautiful son, Jesus Christ to help us to overcome mistakes. That's his whole role and his whole purpose. So guilt is actually there to cause sorrow so that we want to repent.

 

And repentance is what moves us towards change. That's all it is, is. It moves us towards change. But I think a lot of us sit so much in shame, we sit so deeply in shame.

 

And shame is all centered around your worth and your value. Where we feel like I'm worthless because I messed up, because I can't be perfect because I'm not doing things right. I am absolutely worthless.

 

And that's, I think, when the adversary steps in and takes over, if it's moving you towards God, it's guilt, which is moving you towards repentance and change.

 

If it's moving you towards worthlessness and that you have no value, I feel like that comes from the adversary because he's causing you to forget who you are. And then we believe these lies that I'm worthless, I'm no good. And it just really starts spiraling you downward.

 

When you feel like I have no worth and I have no value.

 

Tamara K. Anderson

00:05:16.930 - 00:07:25.040

Shame tells you that you are too far gone. It convinces you that your personal history has disqualified you from mercy.

 

But if you want to know how far God's listening ear can reach, you need to read the story of king Manasseh in Second Chronicles, chapter 33. Manasseh was arguably the most destructive, aggressively wicked king in all of Judah's history.

 

The scriptures record that he built pagan altars right inside the holy temple, practiced witchcraft, consulted with wizards, and literally filled the streets of Jerusalem with innocent blood. Pretty bad guy, huh? By any human standard, he was completely irredeemable. Eventually, judgment caught up with him.

 

He was captured by the Assyrians, bound in fetters, literally had Hooks shoved into his nose and was thrown in a dark Babylonian dungeon. So sitting in that absolute rock bottom mess, the text records something beautiful quote.

 

And when he was in affliction, he besought the Lord his God and humbled himself greatly and prayed unto him. And he was entreated of him and heard his supplication and brought him again to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Wow. He completely changed after that.

 

If God could pierce through the darkness of a pagan Babylonian dungeon to hear the cry of a man who had desecrated his very own temple, do you honestly believe he cannot hear you? Your mistakes have not outrun God's mercy. Remember that. But sometimes it isn't even a major sin that locks us in shame.

 

It's the weight of impossible expectations. You know what I'm talking about? Because we have so many expectations in the church world, right?

 

Wendy is now going to share a powerful experience illustrating how quickly perfectionism can mimic the darkness of sin.

 

Wendi Christensen

00:07:25.200 - 00:08:21.320

I was meeting with this sweet client. She's just graduating from high school, and she had been feeling suicidal.

 

And as we started talking through some of her experiences, she was a perfectionist. And she really pushed hard for good grades. Her goal was to graduate valedictorian. Well, she had calculus. I don't blame her.

 

But she ended up getting a B plus in her calculus class, and she couldn't handle it. She felt worthless. She felt no good. She felt like she had failed and that she didn't matter anymore and that she had just ruined everything.

 

And I thought, wow, look at all the good that you did. And we tend to do that.

 

We, like, throw away all of the good things that we're doing, all the accomplishments that we've had, just for one simple B plus. Right? And why can't we be a B in our life? What's wrong with being a B?

 

Tamara K. Anderson

00:08:21.640 - 00:08:22.200

Amen.

 

Wendi Christensen

00:08:23.160 - 00:08:33.000

Like, there's so many times when I'm like, yeah, I'm B plus. I might C plus it today, but I'm trying hard. I'm doing my best. And just to give ourselves some grace. And some love,

 

Tamara K. Anderson

00:08:33.560 - 00:08:52.640

Whether it's a missed expectation at school, a parenting failure, or a deep spiritual transgression, the remedy remains exactly the same. We do not have to present a perfect record to God right now. We just have to present an honest heart to the Savior, a broken heart.

 

Wendi Christensen

00:08:53.200 - 00:09:48.780

And as a sinner, I don't have to be perfect. I am going to sin. But Christ loves and can fill in that void and help me to become enough so that I can realize I'm still a woman that is not broken.

 

But I'm firmly grateful, grounded and centered in Jesus Christ and His grace is sufficient for me. I love that scripture that Christ's grace is always sufficient for me. I am never not enough because he always steps in and makes me enough.

 

And I think that's such a beautiful way to look at the prayer of a sinner. My prayer is that when I make a mistake, Christ will you step in?

 

And he always, always, always says, yes, I will step in and I will make right the wrong. Please don't feel horrible about yourself. Let's walk this together. Continue moving forward. Let's take the next right step.

 

Tamara K. Anderson

00:09:48.940 - 00:11:16.500

So my friend, the next time you feel the urge to hide your face from God, remember King Manasseh. Remember that your worth is non negotiable in heaven and that Jesus Christ paid for your mistakes.

 

If your heart is heavy with a scarlet stain today, do not run away from the throne of grace. Kneel down, be brutally honest and let the Savior make you as white as snow. He is listening to you right now.

 

To help you step out of the paralyzing cloud of shame and establish a real, resilient and secure connection with with your Heavenly Father. We want to give you our free Roadmap to Revelation 6 Steps to Hearing God in your daily life.

 

You can download this PDF along with the accompanying audio meditation done by Wende to help you actually prepare to receive light and revelation by clicking the link below.

 

They're our gift to you and if the enemy he's bugging you, use the prayer Cast out the Adversary on page eight to get him out of your life and to help you start moving towards heaven.

 

So my friend, until next time, may you remember that God is with you, he loves you, you are his child, that nothing you have done is beyond his redemption and may you arise. Do it God's way. God strong.